Here’s How to Make It Totally You and Absolutely Unforgettable 💫

Okay babes — you’ve picked your dream outfit, your flower girl has been briefed, and you’ve definitely already sobbed to Lover by Taylor Swift at least three times this week. (Just me? No? Thought so. Besties confirmed. 💕)

But let’s chat about the real star of the day:
✨ YOUR CEREMONY ✨

This is the moment the whole day leads up to — so why not make it 100% YOU and get photos that absolutely slap? I’ve got all the tips to help you create an unforgettable “I do” moment (and yes, it includes getting the perfect smooch shot 👀).

🌧 1. Be Weather-Wise – Always Have a Plan B

Getting married outside? Gorgeous. But also, it’s Scotland — so let’s not leave it to chance.
Have a Plan B space ready to go just in case the skies open. Bonus points if it still has gorgeous natural light ✨💡Top Tip: Do a little walkaround of your ceremony spot at the same time of day as your actual ceremony. That way, you’ll know if you’ll be squinting into the sun or freezing in the wind (trust me, wind + veil = chaos).

📵 2. Consider an Unplugged Ceremony

Phone screens blocking your aisle photos? We don’t know her 🙅‍♀️
Ask your celebrant to gently remind guests to pop away the tech and just be present. I’ll be there capturing the magic — no iPad walls needed.

🕰 3. Short & Sweet or Sentimental AF?

This is YOUR moment — it doesn’t have to follow a script.
Chat with your celebrant about the vibe you want. Want a full-on love fest with hand fasting and poems from your pals? YES PLEASE. Want to keep it under 10 mins so your feet don’t cramp up? Also iconic. 🫶

🎯 4. Hit Your Mark

I’m a sucker for symmetry, and your aisle shots will thank you for it.
Ask your venue to pop a wee bit of tape where you should stand — right in the centre of that dreamy floral arch. Trust me, OCD-me LOVES this.

💐 5. Flower Drop!

Once you’re down the aisle, pass your bouquet to your bestie or bridesmaid.
This gives you free hands to hold, hug, or wipe a happy tear — and keeps the ceremony super natural and touchy-feely (just how I like it!).

💋 6. PDA Is Allowed Here!

Haven’t seen each other in days? Giddy with emotion? KISS! HOLD HANDS! Nuzzle their face!
You don’t have to wait for the “you may now” moment — love should never be on a schedule 💖

⬅️ 7. Give Your Photographer Some Room

Tight on space? Have your bridal party sit down after walking in.
It makes room for gorgeous ceremony photos, and your faces stay in full view without a row of backs blocking the shot 🙃

✍️ 8. Skip the Posed Signing Pics

You don’t have to do the cheesy “smile and sign” moment unless you want to.
Tell your celebrant to keep it natural — I’ll be there snapping the little giggles, glances, and hand squeezes that happen in between ❤️

🎙 9. Say Those Vows, Babe!

Write your own vows. Please. Pretty please.
They don’t have to be long or fancy — just you. It’ll be one of your fav memories, and your videographer will LOVE weaving your words into your wedding film 🎥

✨ Bonus points: get them printed on pretty vow cards. Super aesthetic. Super keepsakey.

📸 10. First Kiss Tips That Slay

Walking back up the aisle? STOP halfway for a cheeky smooch and a crowd “WOOOO!!” 🙌

Ask your celebrant to step to the side (I love them, but this ain’t their moment 😅)

Go for the triple kiss — slow it down so I can catch allll the angles

🥳 11. Celebrate the Sh*t Outta It

You just got MARRIED!!! Throw your bouquet in the air, do a lil happy dance, fist pump, high five your nan — whatever feels good in that “OMG we did it” moment.
The joy is contagious — and it makes for incredible photos 💥

Ready to make your ceremony ICONIC?

I’ll help you plan your timeline, your layout, and all those tiny details that make the difference between a cute ceremony and a full-blown emotional masterpiece 💌
Drop me a message here or grab my free wedding planning guide to help you plan all your fave moments.

Let’s make it unforgettable.

Danielle x